Why We Love Wrestling!
Thursday, February 14th, 2008 by John Stavropoulos & Terry Romero
We love wrestling.
Why? The drama. Forget competition, backstage politics or fight simulations. Wrestling is a soap opera where muscles flare alongside tempers, threats loom beyond every false smile, fist or championship belt and the stakes can be as impossibly high as a woman or man’s hard won reputation or as humbling as a broken collarbone. Wrestling is like the finest parts of comic books made real: heart-stopping action, ruthless villains, awesome (well maybe just very tight) costumes and live action superheroes!
But, allow us to focus on what no other sport or performance can hold a candle to: Wrestling’s love affair between the fans and wrestlers. It’s passionate, sweaty and embraces like a standing-corkscrew-Irish-guillotine to an inverted-gutwrench-suicide-spinning-Japanese-scorpian-bear-hug. All great wrestlers are fans and die-hard fans wish (on some level) that they could be wrestlers. They’re reflections of one another and in turn nourish each other. Fans gather around the ring (or television) in anticipation of emotions dashed, then bashed, then risen again all within the safe confines of a 3-hour pay-per-view. The wrestler steps into the ring expecting an entirely different sort bashing, but the pain is only secondary to the surge of love (or hate) he or she is relying on to make their risks entirely worth it.
Can you think of any other instance comparable to that of the wrestler: performing potentially life-threatening stunts and practically naked–physically and emotionally–under the guise of playing a character for the entire crowd to see? They break their necks, cry their hearts out, and bleed themselves dry. And they get up to do it again for the chance to hear thousands of people screaming their name. It’s here, in the midst of battle, where the fans decide who is hated and who is loved. Within seconds of either cheering or jeering the wrestler learns what is boring or exciting or which feuds will live on or be forgotten. With enough passionate fan support even a 5 foot 150 pound jobber can topple a 7 foot, 500 pound monster! It’s not enough for the fans to like or dislike you…they must shout with love or rabidly, hissingly hate you!
The heroes are delivering to the fans what they need and at the same time making the villains look like credible threats. Villains are taking from fans what they hold most dear all while casting the heroes in a shining, sympathetic light. The villain does their job right when the fans want to punch them in the face. And since the fans can’t, the hero does it for them. Everyone gets revenge and both the hero and the fans reign supreme.
It may all sound like dramatics, but these brazen athletes are not actors. They are still just men and women in their underwear positioned to fight each other. Not to mention surrounded by thousands of eyes dissecting their every move and projecting their own hates and desires. As important as headlocks and pile-drivers, the wrestlers observe the crowds and react: they do everything they can, holding back nothing, willing to sacrifice their bodies, lives, families, and futures to enthrall their fans. Filtered through their gimmick, they forge parts of their personalities into exaggerated, extreme forces to be reckoned with. I would like to think that some push it to the next level and even take what they hate about themselves or who they wish they could be and boldly weave it into this fierce and fluid costume.
And what is this all for? It’s all about giving the fans something to care about beyond their ordinary lives and pressures. It may be make-believe, but it’s a conflict that demands to be taken seriously. Resolution is not option here. No loose ends allowed!
It’s drama stripped naked down to its core, served up steaming hot on a weekly basis.
There’s one other drama-cored love in our lives… role playing games! In the coming weeks we’ll be talking about why wrestling and role playing are two great tastes that go even better together. Till then, be sure to catch up on your weekly wrestling fix. Or get together your friends and break out the dice.







